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Not sure what’s next?
Feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or like something’s off — but can’t name it?
You’re not alone — and that’s where I come in.
I’m Jason Shiers, a certified life coach and Psychotherapist. I’ve spent 25+ years guiding people through life’s messier moments.
Life coaching is a conversation with a purpose. It’s a space to pause, reflect, and figure out what’s really going on beneath the surface.
With the right coach, you’ll gain clarity on what matters, notice the patterns holding you back, and build new ways forward — one step at a time.
I won’t give you advice or quick fixes. Instead, I’ll guide you in exploring what’s true for you — so you can make choices that feel aligned, not forced.
Both offer support – but in very different ways.
Traditional counselling often focuses on the past, helping you process emotional pain, trauma, or mental health challenges.
At Wide World Life Coaching London we help you meet yourself in the present. It’s not about diagnosing what’s wrong or striving for self-improvement. Instead, it’s about uncovering your natural capacity for healing, clarity, and freedom – moving beyond old patterns into something real and sustainable.
If you’re seeking clinical support for anxiety or trauma, therapy may be the right path (you can still contact us for this). But if you feel stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected from yourself, this process will guide you toward a deeper understanding of who you are and what’s possible.
This isn’t about pressure or performance. It’s an invitation to step into truth – with curiosity, honesty, and a space that fully supports you.
Life coaching offers a safe space to think clearly, shift unhelpful patterns, and take steady steps forward. Here’s how I can support you:
Most people aren’t lazy — they’re just unclear.
Life coaching helps you slow down, reflect on what matters, and figure out what you actually want.
You’ll start identifying your strengths, understanding what’s holding you back, and mapping goals that feel right for your life — not someone else’s.
Many people get stuck after they’ve started.
Life coaching helps you build momentum and stay grounded while taking action.
Whether you’re changing careers, improving your health, or shifting relationships, we’ll focus on progress that’s sustainable — not just quick wins that fade.
Sometimes a small shift changes everything.
In our sessions, I’ll help you spot hidden patterns that might be holding you back.
These moments — the ones where things suddenly click — can be powerful.
It’s not magic. It’s the result of clear reflection, honest questions, and the right support at the right time.
Real growth takes time, but the right tools make it easier.
Through this type of life coaching, you’ll start to notice real change — in how you think, react, speak, and relate to others.
With consistency, these shifts compound, helping you feel more in control and better equipped to handle life’s challenges.
Life coaching can support you in different areas — depending on what’s going on in your life right now. Here’s how we can work together:
Whether you’re looking for clarity, confidence, or direction — life coaching helps you find steady ground and move forward. We’ll work together to find what’s holding you back and create space for change. This is about building a life that feels right, not just one that looks right on paper.
If you’re running a business or leading a team, you know how overwhelming it can get. Business coaching helps you stay focused, communicate clearly, and lead with intention. We’ll tackle mindset, structure, and the stress that comes with wearing too many hats — all in a way that supports your real goals.
This isn’t about strict rules or quick fixes. Weight loss coaching focuses on changing your relationship with food, motivation, and self-worth. We’ll explore what’s really driving your habits and work on small, realistic shifts that last. The goal is progress — not pressure.
Whether you’re in a partnership or navigating patterns from past relationships, this is a space to learn new ways to connect. We’ll talk about communication, conflict, and what it means to feel safe and seen. Relationship coaching gives you the tools to show up more honestly — with others and yourself.
There are plenty of coaches in London — so why work with me?
Because this isn’t about forcing change or chasing big results overnight. It’s about building trust, slowing down, and doing the work in a way that actually sticks.
I’ve spent over two decades helping people untangle thoughts, shift patterns, and rebuild confidence. With a background in transformational coaching, and psychology, I bring a wide toolkit — but always adapt it to you.
You won’t be pushed into someone else’s version of success.
Coaching with me is grounded in what’s right for you. We’ll take the time to explore what feels true and build a path that fits your life — not someone else’s framework.
When you work with the right life coach, change becomes something you can see — not just feel. Through life coaching in London, many of my clients have experienced meaningful results in both their personal and professional lives.
Here are just a few of the outcomes they’ve shared:
I’m Jason Shiers — a Certified Transformational Life Coach with over 25 years of experience.
But more importantly, I’m someone who understands what it’s like to feel stuck. I’ve worked with people from all walks of life — helping them move through struggle, rebuild self-trust, and create lasting change that feels real.
My approach blends practical tools from psychology, somatic work, and coaching — including Advanced Transactional Analysis. But at the core, the work is simple:Â
We focus on what’s already strong in you. Not what’s broken. Not what needs fixing.
Whether you’re facing a big life shift, repeating the same patterns, or just unsure what you want — this is a space where you can slow down, reconnect with yourself, and find a way forward that actually fits.
Amy Macmillan2022-09-21 Jason helped me in a time where I felt like I wasn’t ever going to feel myself again. He helped me see that I didn’t need to feel the way I felt forever and that there was a way out. I am so grateful for how selfless and caring he was at this time in my life and I will never ever forget that! His calming words and the peaceful space he creates on a call left me feeling that little bit better each time we spoke. I know he’s always a text away and he holds a special place in my heart for helping me through such a difficult time. Thanks Jason x Ed Coss2022-09-14 Working with Jason really helped me see how a simple change in thinking, mindset and outlook could really help improve my mental health, wellbeing with results that are reflected in improvements in relationship, business and general attitude to life. Would highly recommend. Francesa Addabbo2018-10-03 I am a coach and as a coach I act on what I preach. I chose Jason as my coach as I had been given some great feedback by other people we both knew. He was described to me as a non conventional ground breaking coach. I liked the sound of this. I did not have a particular issue to work on but I was confortable in the knowledge that our sessions would develope as they were meant to. After all I knew how to guide a session. What happened after my first session is quite extraordinary. I completely reviewed my coaching skills and decided to let Jason mentor me. His coaching techniques are truly ground breaking. he is able to go so deeply into a conversation that he allows his clients to feel confortable in shearing dreams and ideas that they didn't even know they had. Deep coaching is invaluable for me now. I could not go back to my old ways to look at coaching. Jason allowed change in me that I didn't believe I needed and yet it transformed my life in ways I will be grateful to him forever. He is so skilled that you don't realise how deeply into your mind he is looking until you see the change in you already unfolding. I recommend Jason as one of, if not the best coach I have ever worked with. I truly believe in the benefits of coaching but Jason's coaching is a good few notches above average. Timothy Russel2018-09-06 I came to Jason to get help with my wife!! yes i know crazy as it sounds, we ended up having relationship coaching and all i can say is WOW! both of us in such a short time got back on track, we started communicating more clearly and saw things from each others perspective much easier. I realised that it was human to get caught up in thoughts, in life from time to time, but also that it was ok and that if i didn’t judge that, things were not so bad. I am so happy I made this decision as this has now saved my marriage. Dominic Taylor2018-09-06 Deep Life Coaching indeed! as Jason says I came with 1 thing but ended up with so much more. It is really strange what happens when someone knows what questions to ask!! Often during coaching I was stumped, I just really had never seen things the way they were presented to me. What I found was that just a simple change in perspective made such a huge difference to my life. I never realised that it was just my thinking that was causing me to see the world in the way I did - I Realised what I had been chasing through things for so long was happiness and that happiness was available right now, so no need to look for it anymore! Nigel Chivers2018-09-06 Jasons weight loss mindset transformational package has really helped me see where I was held back with my weight. I only thought I wanted to make a few small changes with some health coaching but the clear vision I got about my relationship with food has opened my mind to a new way of life. I will continue to work with Jason as this stuff runs deep and could last a lifetime! Tina Baker2018-09-04 I worked with Jason on his business start up to success package (business coaching) when I was wanting to start my new venture but I was really stuck with branding, how to present myself in the world, did I need a website, where would my clients come from etc. I Think its a pretty standard set of worries but there was so much to work out. Not only did I get my branding down but I worked on my own personal fears, and got a clear vision and some realistic expectations to work towards. I was happy to give Jason a review because i have come so far in the 6 months we have been working together. Andy Gillott2018-09-03 As a life coach myself it can be really hard to find a coach to work with, and when I read Jasons website I just knew there was something more for me in that. I am always looking to better myself but I find that all the work I have done leaves me a little picky and critical. Jason was able to see past the BS and help me move forward on the journey I am on. I continue to work with Jason and when I get stuck with a client he is the first port of call for me. Melvyn Rattenbury2018-09-03 Jason has been outstanding in helping me change my life - relationships, work and personal life have become so much more natural to me now. Steve Fitz2018-08-28 If you want to work with Jason you best be prepared for change, I really didn’t expect the journey I went on with my business. I had some staffing and team building struggles. Through my executive coaching with Jason I was able to see clearly my part in this and make the changes needed to grow my business exponentially I continue to work with Jason to get clarity on things I come up against hes been a great asset to my business.Load more
Life can feel heavy when you’re stuck in patterns that no longer serve you. At Jason Shiers Coaching, we offer grounded, one-to-one life coaching in London to help you make real, lasting changes — without pressure or judgment.
Whether you’re navigating big transitions, struggling with self-doubt, or simply feeling off-track, we’re here to support you in finding clarity, confidence, and direction.
Before you take the first step, you may have a couple of questions about life coaching. Here are some of the most frequently asked questions.
Start by looking at a coach’s approach, and values. Read reviews, trust your instinct, and — most importantly — see how you feel during a discovery call. A good coach won’t push. They’ll listen. You should feel safe, understood, and supported — not judged.
Rates for life coaching in London typically range from £100 to £250 per session. Prices vary depending on the coach’s experience and the type of coaching offered. I offer flexible options based on your needs.
Therapy often looks to the past to understand emotional wounds or mental health challenges. This coaching focuses on where you are now – meeting yourself fully in this moment – to create real, meaningful change. It’s not about fixing what’s ‘wrong’ but about uncovering your innate capacity for freedom, healing, and growth.
If you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure what’s next — coaching can help you create real, steady progress. It’s not about changing who you are. It’s about supporting the version of you that’s already ready for something better. Many of my clients say they wish they’d started sooner.
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